{"id":5976,"date":"2025-09-28T18:52:19","date_gmt":"2025-09-28T18:52:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/traumanet.nl\/?post_type=veelgestelde-vragen&p=5976"},"modified":"2025-09-28T18:52:42","modified_gmt":"2025-09-28T18:52:42","slug":"how-can-i-share-what-is-happening-without-violating-the-privacy-of-my-loved-ones","status":"publish","type":"veelgestelde-vragen","link":"https:\/\/traumanet.nl\/en\/veelgestelde-vragen\/hoe-kan-ik-delen-wat-er-speelt-zonder-de-privacy-van-mijn-dierbare-te-schenden\/","title":{"rendered":"How can I share what is going on without violating the privacy of my loved one?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Many loved ones struggle with this question. On the one hand, you want people to understand what\u2019s going on or what it\u2019s doing to you. On the other hand, you want to respect your loved one\u2019s privacy and not share personal details.<\/p>

Important to remember: you never have to tell anything. Even if people insist or are curious, you are not obligated to provide explanations or share anything that doesn\u2019t feel right.<\/p>

Still, it can be supportive to share something. It helps others better understand the reactions of your loved one and it can give you comfort. Preferably discuss with your loved one what you can share about this: which words are appropriate, what can and cannot be said. This way you know that you respect your loved one\u2019s boundaries.<\/p>

A safe way to do this is to keep it to yourself and speak in general terms. For example, you could say: \u201cIt\u2019s not up to me to tell you exactly what\u2019s going on, but he\/she is going through a difficult time and needs some rest.\u201d<\/i> In this way, you provide an explanation without revealing personal history. You can also share what it does to you and where you can find support.<\/p>

Being close to someone with trauma can be difficult and the impact is also great for you. It is therefore important that you receive support as well. It is nice if there is at least one person you can confide in: a friend, a trusted person, or a helper. If you find that difficult in your environment, then an anonymous helpline can also be a low-threshold way to vent and let your heart out.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Veel naasten worstelen met deze vraag. Aan de ene kant wil je dat mensen begrijpen wat er speelt of wat het met jou doet. Aan de andere kant wil je de privacy van je dierbare respecteren en geen persoonlijke details delen. Belangrijk om te onthouden: je hoeft nooit iets te vertellen. Ook als mensen aandringen […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":5913,"template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"give_campaign_id":0},"doelgroep":[13],"thema":[48],"class_list":["post-5976","veelgestelde-vragen","type-veelgestelde-vragen","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","doelgroep-iemand-in-mijn-omgeving-heeft-trauma","thema-leven-met-trauma"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nHoe kan ik delen wat er speelt zonder privacy te schenden?<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Voorkomen dat iemand het gevoel heeft in de steek te worden gelaten kun je nooit helemaal. 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